
The questions you will be asked, in the order they will be asked
An owner once came into a meeting with a printed sheet in front of him, face down, which he glanced at twice in the first ten minutes. His adviser had given him the likely questions. I could see enough of it upside down to know that almost nothing on that page came up, and that the things we actually spent the hour on were not on it at all.
He’d prepared for an examination. What he got was a sequence, and a sequence is a different animal.
The order is not accidental and it is not politeness. It is built so that the answers you give early, when you’re relaxed and the questions feel harmless, become the material the later questions are tested against. By the time anyone asks you something that sounds difficult, they already know most of the answer. They’re checking whether you do.
Here’s a common order, and what each one is for.
“So how did you end up in this business?”
This gets asked first, every time, and it gets treated as small talk by almost every owner I’ve watched answer it.
It is establishing whether the business was built or inherited by accident. Whether you chose the market or fell into it. Whether the thing has a logic that exists outside your biography.
Listen to yourself answer it. If the story of the business and the story of your life are the same story, that’s the first data point, and it’s a significant one.
“Talk me through what you actually do”
The test is whether you can do it in two minutes without a diagram.
A business that takes fifteen minutes to explain either genuinely is complicated, which is a risk, or has an owner who has never had to explain it to anyone who could leave. Both are worth knowing. A buyer is also silently checking how many times you say “it depends” and “it varies”, because every one of those is a decision that lives somewhere, and they’ll come back later to find out where.
“Who are your five biggest customers?”
Concentration, and everyone expects that.
What most owners miss is the follow-up, which is asked lightly, usually a beat later: “How did you win the last three?”
That one is the real question. If the answer to all three is a version of somebody knew somebody, then your customer acquisition isn’t a process, it’s a network, and the network is standing in the room right now holding a coffee.
“What happened in the bad year?”
Every business has one. If you say you haven’t, they’ll find it, and now they’ve learned something about you rather than about the year.
The test is not the downturn. It’s whether you know your own numbers well enough to explain it without notes, whether the explanation matches what the accounts say, and whether you volunteer the part that makes you look worse. Owners who front-run the bad news get more credit than they expect. It’s the cheapest credibility available in the room and hardly anyone takes it.
“Who signs off when you’re not there?”
Now we’re into the middle of it, and the tone won’t change at all.
The question sounds like an org chart question. It is a control question. There’s a follow-up that’s almost always asked and almost never anticipated: “When did that last actually happen?”
Anyone can name a deputy. Far fewer can name a date.
“Who’s the best person you’ve got?”
Then, without a pause: “What happens if they leave?”
Owner dependency gets all the attention and it is not the only kind. Most businesses of this size have a second person who is quietly load-bearing, and the owner usually names them instantly and then discovers, out loud, that they’ve never thought about the second half of the question.
What’s being tested is whether you know where your own bench is thin, and whether that person’s tied to the business by anything other than habit and your relationship with them. If the honest answer is that they’d follow you out of the door, then you’re not one point of failure. You are two.
“What would you fix if you had another year?”
This one is generous and it is not kind.
It’s giving you permission to volunteer the weaknesses, and it’s measuring two things at once: whether you can see them, and whether you’d tell someone who’s about to price them. Say nothing and you look either blind or evasive. Say too much and you’ve handed over the discount schedule.
The owners who handle this well name two things, both real, both already being worked on, and neither of them existential. That answer is not a dodge. It’s evidence of judgement, which is the thing being bought.
“Why now?”
Asked late, deliberately, once you’ve stopped performing.
Every honest reason is fine. Age, tiredness, a partner who wants a different life, a market you no longer enjoy, a number that’s finally enough. What is not fine is a reason that contradicts something you said in the first twenty minutes, and that’s exactly why it comes so late.
“What are you going to do afterwards?”
The last real question, and it’s the one that prices your transition.
If you have a clear answer with a date attached, you’re leaving, and the deal gets structured for a clean handover. If you visibly haven’t thought about it, or you say something about staying involved in some capacity, they’ll hear that you don’t intend to go, and they’ll build terms that keep you whether you want to be kept or not.
What to do with this
Read the list again and notice what it doesn’t contain. There’s almost nothing in it about growth, strategy, or the market. Those get discussed. They are not what is being tested.
The whole sequence is aimed at one thing: how much of this business is a system and how much of it is a person. Every question above is a different angle on that, asked obliquely enough that the direct version never has to be said out loud.
The useful move is not to prepare better answers, because most of these can’t be rehearsed and the rehearsed ones are easy to spot. It’s to notice which of them you can’t answer well, and treat that as the work rather than the interview. There are only a handful, and they’re the same handful for almost everyone.
You’ll know which ones they are before you finish reading this.